Neil Strauss Seduction

Neil Strauss says that every part of his ‘Method of seduction’ is designed to anticipate and disarm any objections to the least.

The opener can be casual and is not perceived as a pickup attempt. Neil Strauss example is to say something like “My neighbor just bought two dogs, and she wants to name them after an eighties or nineties pop duo. Do you have any idea?”. Just be a friendly stranger when doing this.

When you start talking to a group of people their first concern would be, how to get rid of you without being stuck with you for the rest of the day! Tell them that you have only few minutes. As you interact, you pay attention to the people who seem most likely to shut you out- the jealous men, the overprotective friends. You make them feel good about themselves as you challenge, tease, and neg the target.

After they’ve finished giving opinions on names for the dogs, then you demonstrate value by doing something like analyzing their hand writing. Then you pretend like you have to get back to your friends. If you done your work well they don’t want you to leave. You’ve shown them that you are the most interesting, fun person in the room. This is the hook point:
You can now relax and enjoy their company. David Deangelo might say for you to include some cocky and funny!

In a best case scenario, you can take the group or your target on an instant date to another bar, club, café, or party. As now you’re part of their group.